My mission is simple yet profound — help you tap into your inner strength and happiness. My unique blend of empathy, cultural diversity, and real-world experience allows me to connect with you on a deeper level. Together, we’re not just navigating challenges; we’re crafting a life that aligns with your true self.

As the saying goes, “Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.” I embody this philosophy, having witnessed the power of personal transformation.

The first step towards transformation is often the most challenging. I invite you to take that step, to reach out and connect. Whether you’re exploring the ‘Find Your Nooorte’ program, ready to ‘Reach for the Stars,’ or looking for insights in our free e-guide, know that you’re not alone.

I felt lost. Even though having followed all the steps society said would lead to happiness. I had a Bachelor’s and Master’s degree, a nice house, a partner, and a couple of bunnies as pets, but I felt empty inside.

Within two weeks, my six-relationship ended, I quit my job, and I moved in with my sister. I started traveling and trying new things to discover what made me happy. Pole dancing, cooking, eating, traveling, and three years later, on one of these trips to Asia, I met my current partner, Nico, a Chilean.

Ten months later, I made the radical decision to move to Chile, a country I had never visited before and not speaking a word of Spanish.

Here, I found the mental peace and space to work on myself. With the distance I created between me and my unhappy life in the Netherlands, I began to see that there are many more possibilities for leading a happy life. The ideal picture society painted for me didn’t apply, and it was okay to deviate from the beaten path. It was okay to choose my path, and I didn’t need permission or approval from anyone else to strive for a happy life!

I know how you feel from my own experience, and in recent years, I’ve made significant choices with a great positive impact on my life.

As an experienced professional and certified coach, I can help you do the same.

Read more about my story here.

My own journey has been a winding path of self-discovery, growth, challenges, and transformation. As a young girl, I confronted a world where choices were often made for me, where my voice felt suppressed, and pursuing my own dreams seemed like a distant reality.

Throughout my elementary school years, I endured relentless bullying. Every morning, I reluctantly dragged myself to school, and every afternoon, I returned home in tears. For me, school was far from a place where I felt comfortable and secure. Unfortunately, I didn’t receive the support I needed at home to navigate the situation and manage my emotions. I experienced immense stress and anxiety, a struggle that continues to this day (as I still battle social anxiety). However, my parents’ response was curt: “You have to go to school, period.” There was no room for discussion.

This experience ingrained in me the belief that my needs and emotions were inconsequential. I had to endure it, no matter how uncomfortable or unhappy I felt, no matter the challenges I faced. Consequently, I spent years in jobs that failed to fulfill me, relationships that were ill-suited for me, and a life that felt like I was living someone else’s concept of a respectable and fulfilling existence.”

I graduated from university, found a partner, secured a good job, and lived in a lovely place, but I wasn’t happy. I didn’t enjoy my job, and my partner was emotionally abusive. I followed all the societal steps prescribed for achieving happiness and fulfillment, but that wasn’t my reality.

Within just two weeks, I resigned from my job and ended my six-year-long relationship. I moved back to live with my sister and embarked on a journey of self-discovery. What do I want from life? What truly brings ME happiness and fulfillment?

My quest involved embarking on adventures—trying new experiences, delving into books, meeting new people, and traveling solo. I rekindled my commitment to physical fitness through activities like CrossFit, survival training, and pole fitness. All of these endeavors helped me rediscover my authentic self, uncovering what resonated with me and what didn’t.

I had always yearned to explore far-off destinations, so I travelled to various countries in Asia and Latin America. It was during one of these trips that I met my current partner, Nico, a Chilean.

Life has an enchanting way of imparting its lessons, and I found myself at another crossroads. I had a desire to work and live abroad for a while, but fear held me back. When Nico suggested that I join him in Chile for a while, I was still apprehensive, especially considering that it wasn’t a decision supported by my immediate circle. In fact, it was quite the opposite. However, he made a compelling argument: “The worst that could happen is that I would learn a bit of Spanish, and if I didn’t like it, I could always return to the Netherlands.”

So, despite my fears, I took the leap. I resigned from my job once again and moved to Chile, despite having never visited or knowing any Spanish. As it turned out, this was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made in my life.

While in Chile, I unearthed new insights and the inner peace necessary to reflect on everything I had learned about myself and consider what I truly wanted in life. Furthermore, the disparities in culture and language provided me with fresh perspectives. Language indeed wields a profound influence on how we perceive the world and ourselves.

I sought feedback from my friends, family, and former colleagues. I applied the concept of Ikigai, embarked on a journey of therapy and journaling, and essentially implemented all the exercises outlined in this book.

Through this process, I discovered my passion for empowering others and instilling a sense of self-worth in them. I possess strong active listening skills, keen observation, responsibility, and dedication to helping others realize that they already possess the potential to turn their dreams into reality. This revelation led me to the path of coaching, aligning perfectly with my interests and strengths. The very definition of coaching resonated deeply with me.

I obtained certification as a Professional Coach from the Universidad de Andres Bello in Chile. During my studies, a realm of endless possibilities unfolded before me. It was during this period that I shed numerous limiting beliefs that had hindered my ability to live life to its fullest.

As someone who once had limited agency and couldn’t fathom the possibilities, coaching has provided me with a significant power boost. It has fortified my inner strength. I’ve learned that I CAN make choices and that I’m entitled to do so. There exist options, often far more than I initially believed, and I already possess the skills and inner strength needed to steer my life toward what brings me happiness.

I realized that I don’t need approval from anyone to pursue my dreams. I have the autonomy to make decisions about all my actions. If something doesn’t align with my comfort or values, I can simply make a change.

And I aspire to extend the same sentiment to YOU: that sense of mental liberation, the feeling of truly embracing your authentic self. It’s about recognizing and embracing the myriad possibilities before you and summoning the courage to pursue what brings you happiness. This is precisely why I ventured into coaching – to assist others in reaching that juncture. The moment when you start living life on your own terms!